GLP-1 helped you finally move the scale.
But the scale does not know the difference between the fat you want to lose and the muscle you want to keep.
That is why the weight can come off while your glutes get flatter.
Your legs feel softer.
Your strength drops.
Your clothes fit differently around your lower body.
You start hiding in oversized shirts, avoiding mirrors, and thinking about your body when you are supposed to be enjoying time with your husband.
The bedroom problem is not really about sex.
It is about what happens when you stop feeling at home in your own body.
You do not reach for him because you are thinking about your stomach, your legs, your butt, the lighting, and whether he notices what you notice.
You can love him completely and still pull away from physical closeness because the weight loss changed the way you feel inside your skin.
That is the real reason the usual advice feels incomplete.
You are not trying to lose more weight.
You are trying to rebuild what the weight loss took with it.